You're always paying for it!

You’re always paying for it

By Dexx2G

The following is a conversation that I overheard this week on Valentine’s Day, the names are made up but the statements are real:

Amy: So what are you guys doing for Valentine’s Day?

Sue:  Well Bill is taking me to this nice restaurant in DC, and then he got us a suite at the Gaylord hotel down by the National Harbor.

Amy:  Wow he got you those flowers, that bracelet and he’s taking you out on the town? Now that’s a real man, girl you lucky.  What you get him?

Sue:  Oh I’m about to put it on him tonight, he has more than earned it!  He’s taking care of me so you know I’m gonna take care of him!

Are you serious? What that translates to is, she is not going to get him shit!  Sorry ladies, you are all beautiful in your own way, you all are smart, sexy, strong and you raise the bar all the time on the things you all can accomplish but I am here to inform you that “coochie” is not currency.

This is going to be a hard shell to crack because historically men have and probably will continue to pay for sex in some shape form or fashion.  The vagina has some kind of mystical power that makes men do some of the dumbest things I’ve ever seen (don’t worry I admit to falling victim to it also).  I can’t count how many times I’ve seen men take a woman to an expensive restaurant, pay her rent, tuition, car note or whatever expense they might have, all in the hopes of having sex with her.  There are always exceptions to this rule, i.e pimps and gigolos or the infamous cheap ass but most of the time, the man will be parting with his cash.  We place the vagina on a level incomparable to anything else in the world.  From the minute we begin to wonder about girls, we think sex!  Anytime we have sex we [men] say “she gave me some!”  “She gave it up”, “I got some” always implying that we were the receivers in the deal.  I am officially leading the movement to have that corrected.  Women have been fighting for equal rights since 1848¹ and here in 2011 they have not only succeeded they have pushed the envelope and become a force not only in the world of entertainment but business and sports too.  Men created the monster that is the modern woman.  In 1986 Gwen Guthrie came out with a song called “Ain’t nothing going on but the rent” and that simple statement has never rang truer than it does today.  Countless Congressmen, Senators, Businessmen, athletes, rap stars have fallen to the lore of sex.  Women have made careers out of the weapon they posses between there legs.

Gentlemen wake up!  Women like sex too.  I know they make it seem like they’re doing you a favor by “giving you some” but think hard about this,    they get horney too!  The only difference is we are neanderthalian in our motives and women actually use their brain when they want some.  They lust just like we do, but instead of offering to buy us gifts and showering us with money they adorn their body’s with flattering garments and spray themselves with fragrances to tantalize our senses and just like the brick head animals we are, we take the bait.  My co-worker said to me that a wife doesn’t have to have sex with her husband and I was appalled by that statement.  If sex is not one of the, if not the primary reason for such a commitment, why join in the union of holy matrimony.  I won’t go into procreation and all the other politically correct reasons for marriage but sex should be a given.  At this point or even prior, the couple has done all of the courting and spending money for sex should no longer be an issue.  Withholding sex should never be a card that can be played.  It was said to me a long time ago, that a man has a responsibility to take care of home, and that doesn’t necessarily mean financially (because women can be the bread winners) but a woman also has to take care of her man because in both cases if you’re not doing it someone else gladly will! So ladies if you think what you have between your legs are good bargaining chips, hold onto that thought you’re not alone.  There are millions of other women out there thinking the same exact thing and a million men out there willing to put them to the test.

¹The first women's rights convention is held in Seneca Falls, New York. After 2 days of discussion and debate, 68 women and 32 men sign a Declaration of Sentiments, which outlines grievances and sets the agenda for the women's rights movement. A set of 12 resolutions is adopted calling for equal treatment of women and men under the law and voting rights for women.

Read more: Women's Rights Movement in the U.S.: Timeline of Events (1848-1920) — Infoplease.com http://www.infoplease.com/spot/womenstimeline1.html#ixzz1EB6RDCjD